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в центре круга, так как для него нет свободного стула. Он-водящий. Водящий должен объявить, кто будет меняться местами. Например, он говорит: «меняются местами те, кто будет в черных ботинках». Все обладающие указанным свойством должны честно встать со своего места и поменяться местами с кем-то из друзей. Водящий во время обмена местами должен успеть занять чье-то временно освободившееся место. Тот участник, который остался без стула становится водящим.

Эта игра создает общий настрой, атмосферу.

Представление: Группа разбивается на пары, где каждый рассказывает о себе своему партнеру. Задача – подготовиться к представлению своего партнера всей группе. При этом главное – подметить индивидуальности партнера, рассказать о нем так, чтобы остальные участники о нем запомнили.

Затем все участники садятся в круг и представление начинается.

Ритуал завершения занятия: все встают в тесный круг, кладут друг другу руки на плечи и говорят : «До свидания, мы».

Занятие2

Цель занятия: Продолжение знакомства с участниками, повышение групповой сплоченности, научиться снимать барьер на проявление чувств и эмоций.

Приветствие: Каждый по очереди произнести свое имя, но с разной интонацией, задача «не повториться».

Проверка запоминания имен: Доброволец встает в центр круга. Руководитель просит всех участников встать и повернуться спиной к добровольцу.

Задание: Надо узнать участников тренинга со спины, подойти к тем, чьи имена добровольцу известны, положить им руку на плечо и сказать: «Здравствуй, ты…» Если имя названо верно, то последний должен повернуться к отгадывающему лицом, улыбнуться ему и сесть на стул.

После этого проводится нацеленная помощь тем, кто не запомнил все имена.

Игра «Слепой и поводырь». Группа разбивается на пары: один слепой (он закрывает глаза), другой – поводырь. Задача поводыря провести слепого по зданию, где проводится тренинг (оберегая своего подопечного, предупреждая о поворотах, лестницах и т.п.), предложить объекты для отгадывания – «что это такое».

Затем участники меняются ролями.

При обсуждении спросить, не было ли участникам страшно, уверенно ли они себя чувствовали, насколько легко они могли доверять друг другу, насколько принимали на себя ответственность за безопасность другого, каковы их ощущении при тактильной форме знакомства с предметами.

Обсуждение с участниками, что им мешает быть искренними с другими людьми. Что, по их мнению, способствует открытости в общении с другими людьми.

УПРАЖНЕНИЕ «ПРОСЬБА»

Спросить участников, когда они просили кого-то о чем-то, то какие возникли при этом сложности, почему?

Задание: Выбрать партнера и попросить его одолжить, что-нибудь на время. Кто наберет больше предметов?

При обсуждении опросить наиболее успешных игроков, как им это удалось, продемонстрировать. Обратить внимание группы на использование комплиментов, оригинальность, находчивость и т. п. Спросить, как участники оценивают собственную общительность, открыли ли они что-то новое для себя на этом занятии?

Занятие 3

Цель занятия: Знакомство с понятием уверенности в себе, неуверенности и агрессивности, различение демонстрируемого другими агрессивного, неуверенного и уверенного поведения; выделение ситуации, при которых чаще всего испытывают неуверенность в себе. Попытки изобразить уверенное в себе поведение.

УПРАЖНЕНИЕ ДЛЯ РАЗМИНКИ «ЛОВЛЯ МОЛИ»

Ведущий указывает на одну из участниц игры, представляя ее как «хозяйку», которая пригласила нас в гости. У нее в доме развилось много моли. Она пригласила нас для того, чтобы все мы вместе помогли ей избавиться от моли. Далее ведущий предлагает всем участникам группы «убить по 10 шт. моли», и демонстрирует «убивание моли» хлопками в воздухе, хлопанье по плечам и головам участников, по вещам в помещении и т.п. Он побуждает всех членов игры принять участие в этом действии.

УПРАЖНЕНИЕ «ГОСТИ» («ДЕНЬ РОЖДЕНИЯ»)

Каждому из гостей вручается билетики, в котором указано, как себя вести в этой игре. Содержание билетика хранится в тайне до конца игры, и лишь потом, во время обсуждения можно признаться, что кому было сказано делать.

Среди всех ролей есть неуверенный в себе человек, агрессивно настроенный, уверенный в себе человек.

Обсуждение упражнения: Группа оценивает, какие типы поведения были продемонстрированы.

Групповая дискуссия: Приходилось ли вам испытывать неуверенность в себе? В каких ситуациях? Что такое уверенность в себе?

УПРАЖНЕНИЕ «НАЧАЛЬНИК-СОТРУДНИК-ПОДЧИНЕННЫЙ»

Участники работают в парах. Задача обратиться к напарнику с просьбой, демонстрируя различные способы поведения:

-более уверенно, ставя себя выше;

-уступая собеседнику, как бы подчиняясь;

-с чувством собственного достоинства, но без вызова.

Каждый участник должен попробовать себя во всех вариантах.

Завершение занятий:

УПРАЖНЕНИЕ «КОМПЛИМЕНТ»

Каждый участник говорит группе и своему соседу слева комплимент, хорошее слово и т.п.

Приложение 2

Иностранный источник

November 2001 - Ref N71
The costs and causes of low self-esteem

There is a widespread view that low self-esteem is a risk factor for a broad range of psychological and behavioural problems. However, neither public discussion nor decisions to invest in prevention and treatment have been strongly informed or guided by hard evidence, either about the effects or the causes of low self-esteem. This review of the available research evidence, by Nicholas Emler (London School of Economics) aimed to fill this gap. The review found that:

  • There is not perfect agreement among researchers about the nature of self-esteem. The most significant division is between the view that self-esteem is a generalised feeling about the self, and the view that it is the sum of a set of judgements about one's value, worthiness, and competence in various domains.
  • Despite imperfect agreement about its nature, levels of self-esteem can be reliably and easily measured.
  • The design of much, perhaps most, published research means it cannot show whether self-esteem has a causal influence on behaviour patterns. The most informative evidence comes from longitudinal studies, following the same individuals over time. This shows that:

    - relatively low self-esteem is not a risk factor for delinquency, violence towards others (including child and partner abuse), drug use, alcohol abuse, educational under-attainment or racism;
    - relatively low self-esteem is a risk factor for suicide, suicide attempts and depression, for teenage pregnancy, and for victimisation by others. In each case, however, this risk factor is one of several and probably interacts with others;
    - there are indications that childhood self-esteem is associated with adolescent eating disorders and with economic outcomes - earnings, continuity of employment - in early adulthood, but the causal mechanisms involved remain unclear.
  • Low self-esteem in an absolute sense is rare. Most of the comparative research contrasts the consequences of very high self esteem with more moderate levels.
  • The strongest influences upon self-esteem are the individual's parents. Parenting style, physical and particularly sexual abuse play a significant role, as do genetic factors.
  • Planned interventions can raise self-esteem but knowledge of why particular interventions work, or whether their effects are more than short term, is very limited.

Background
In recent times low self-esteem has been one of the most popular and frequently invoked psychological explanations for behavioural and social problems. Taking their cue from social commentators and media opinion leaders, people have been willing to accept that a limited sense of self-worth lies behind just about every social and personal ill from drug abuse and delinquency to poverty and business failures. The result has been a huge market for self-help manuals and educational programmes.

The emerging climate has also had its effect on public policy. For example, the converging notions that high self-esteem is both an asset to society and an individual right has had distinct effects in education. Observers have noted a growing disinclination among teachers to criticise or to set high performance standards, through fear that more objective feedback will damage the self-esteem of pupils. At the same time, there has been pressure on educational authorities to bring in programmes of personal development specifically aimed at enhancing and strengthening self-esteem. In the US, the state of California has invested significant public funds in projects to raise the self-esteem of its citizens.

However, despite an extensive body of research which can inform policy and practice, such initiatives - and the public perceptions that lie behind them - have not been securely rooted in evidence. The aim of this study was therefore to determine what is known from research about three key questions:

  • what are the consequences of low self-esteem?
  • what factors and conditions determine a person's level of self-esteem?
  • can self-esteem be raised through planned interventions?

Scientific study of self-esteem
As with many psychological phenomena, scientific progress in understanding self-esteem has two key requirements. The first is clarity of definition: what is self-esteem? The second is the availability of procedures to measure self-esteem. There is also, of course, a mutual dependence between these two requirements.

There is not perfect unanimity within the scientific community as to exactly what self-esteem is, but the major options currently boil down to two. Either self-esteem is primarily an emotional response: it is a generalised feeling about the self that is more or less positive. Or self-esteem is primarily the cumulative result of a set of judgements. These are judgements about one's adequacy across a range of dimensions - intellectual competence, social skills, appearance, physical co-ordination, and so on. According to the first view these judgements are substantially shaped - indeed biased - by the generalised feeling people have towards themselves. According to the second, the generalised feeling is the net result or effect of these more specific judgements.

These alternatives have practical consequences for how self-esteem is measured and there are well-established and widely used procedures based on each of them. There are, moreover, advantages to each kind of procedure. However, the simpler procedures derived from the more emotion-based definition have generally proved more useful and more informative.

The consequences of differing levels of self-esteem
A difficulty in deciding whether low self-esteem does in reality have consequences for behaviour is not the absence of evidence but its highly variable quality. The most informative research is longitudinal. It follows the same individuals over time, preferably a period of several years, and in such a way as to detect changes in both self-esteem and the behaviour of interest over that period. It should also control for the effects of other factors; most problem behaviours have multiple causes and multiple risk factors. This review gave most weight to research that meets these requirements.

The review focused upon the following outcomes: crime and delinquency (including violent crime), racial prejudice, abuse of illegal drugs, illegal (under-age) tobacco use, alcohol abuse, risky sexual behaviour and teenage pregnancy, child maltreatment, educational underachievement, economic circumstances, eating disorders, suicide and suicide attempts.

It is more difficult to prove, unequivocally, the absence than the presence of a link. Nonetheless, in several cases the evidence was about as clear as it could be in ruling out a causal influence of low self-esteem. These cases are crime/delinquency (including violent crime), racial prejudice, teenage smoking, and child maltreatment. What make some of these cases particularly clear is that high, not low self-esteem, is the more plausible risk factor.

A second category covers cases in which the influence of low self-esteem is not proven (these may merit further attention) or very slight. These include educational under-achievement, alcohol abuse and drug abuse.

One commonly voiced assumption is that low self-esteem increases the risk of behaviour damaging to health among young people - notably drug and alcohol abuse and smoking - because it increases vulnerability to negative peer group pressure. In fact, very low self-esteem if anything reduces sensitivity to conformity pressures. It also appears that engaging in physically risky pursuits, such as driving too fast or under the influence of alcohol is associated with high, not low self-esteem.

Finally, with respect to four cases, low self-esteem does appear to be a risk factor: teenage pregnancy, eating disorders, suicide attempts and suicidal thoughts, and (for males only) lower earnings and more extended periods of unemployment in early adulthood.

In each case, however, it is unclear precisely why low self-esteem increases the risk. Moreover, the increased risk is typically small and low self-esteem is only one of a number of risk factors. Nonetheless, these are the strongest cases for further inquiry.

Causes
A few factors - ethnicity or race, social background and gender - could not possibly be consequences of low self-esteem - but are they among its causes?

Belonging to a minority ethnic community, particularly one that has experienced a history of persecution and discrimination by the majority population, would seem to pose a threat to any individual's sense of their own worth. If anything, however, quite the contrary is the case. Notably, black Americans enjoy higher self-esteem than their white counterparts.

It is just possible that black Americans are a special case but research points to the same conclusion about all manner of stigmatised groups: being an object of prejudice does not damage self-esteem.

Social class position in adulthood is modestly related to self-esteem, but adolescent and childhood levels of self-esteem are unrelated to the socio-economic status of parents. There is indication, however, of some 'hidden injuries', albeit minor, of social class including father's level of education and whether the father is unemployed.

Gender is also only very modestly related to self-esteem. Females on average have slightly lower self-esteem than males, the gap being widest in the late teens. The many explanations that have been advanced for females' lower self-esteem therefore seem to over-explain the difference.

Among factors that appear to have a clearer effect on self-esteem are successes and failures. Most attention has been given to the effect of academic achievement. The effect is undeniable but it is not large. The same goes for successes and failures of other kinds - in finding work or holding on to employment, for example, and for such public attacks on a person's worth as being diagnosed an alcoholic, referred to a drug abuse rehabilitation programme or convicted of child abuse.

Much attention has been given to the impact of appearance upon self-esteem and strong claims have been made about its effects among adolescents. The evidence, however, does not unequivocally support these claims. It does show clearly that self-esteem is related to beliefs about appearance. It does not rule out the plausible conclusion that these beliefs are themselves substantially determined by self-esteem.

As to what are the most important influences on self-esteem, the simple answer is: parents. Part of this influence is attributable to parenting style. The key qualities contributing to positive self-esteem appear to be approval and acceptance. Among the most damaging things parents can do is to abuse their children, physically or sexually. Family conflict and breakdown are likewise sources of damage.

Biological parents also exercise a genetic influence; a part of the difference between the self-esteem of one individual and the next is inherited. This source of influence is significant and substantial - it is the single most important source of variations in self-esteem so far identified. But it still leaves most of the differences between people to be produced by events after they are born.

Finally, close and loving relationships with others later in life do contribute positively to self-esteem. But the likelihood of forming and sustaining successful relationships of these kinds is itself higher when self-esteem is higher in the first place.

Planned interventions to raise self-esteem: what works?
Raising self-esteem has become big, and profitable, business. But the products being sold are in serious need of evaluation. We need to know not just whether they work, but how well (do they produce substantial and long-lasting gains?), how cost-effectively, and why they work.

Most of these questions remain for the present unanswered. Undeniably some interventions do work. Moreover, those work best that are grounded in relevant theory and evidence, that are intended specifically to raise self-esteem rather than to produce


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